Life In Christ Bible Study
May 3, 2025
Living in an Adulterous and Sinful Generation
Scripture References from The Bible
presented by
Bible Teacher Michael Webb
Student Bible Study Notes for May 3, 2025
Teaching scripture in a Bible study environment requires both preparation and effective communication. Here’s a detailed outline on how to teach the scriptures, particularly about topics like adultery and fornication, in a Bible study setting. This guide includes steps from preparation to presentation, ensuring that the material is clear, engaging, and spiritually enriching.
In the Bible, adultery and fornication are both serious sexual sins that are addressed with clear moral and spiritual implications. Though they are sometimes used interchangeably in casual conversation, there are distinct meanings and contexts for each term according to Scripture.
- Adultery
- Biblical Definition: Adultery refers to a married person having sexual relations with someone who is not their spouse. It is a breach of the marriage covenant, violating the faithfulness and commitment that marriage represents.
- Scriptural Foundation:
- Exodus 20:14: “You shall not commit adultery.” This is one of the Ten Commandments, establishing that adultery is a direct violation of God’s law.
- Leviticus 20:10: “If a man commits adultery with the wife of another man, both the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.” This emphasizes the seriousness of the offense within Israel’s law.
- Matthew 5:27-28: Jesus expands the definition of adultery beyond the physical act to include lustful thoughts, teaching that even looking at someone with lust is akin to committing adultery in the heart.
- Matthew 19:9: “And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.” Jesus teaches that divorce and remarriage are sinful unless sexual immorality is involved, linking adultery to breaking the marriage bond.
- Meaning: In its simplest biblical sense, adultery is the act of a married person engaging in sexual relations with someone who is not their spouse. It is a sin not only against one’s spouse but also against God’s covenant of marriage. Jesus expands the concept to include not just the physical act but also lustful intentions, showing the deeper, heart-level issue with adultery.
Fornication
- Biblical Definition: Fornication refers to sexual immorality or illicit sexual intercourse, especially when it occurs outside of marriage. It can be applied to various forms of sexual sin, including premarital sex, incest, or any sexual activity that is not in accordance with God’s design for marriage.
Scriptural Foundation:
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- 1 Corinthians 6:18: “Flee from sexual immorality (fornication). Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.” This verse emphasizes the destructive nature of fornication and calls believers to flee from it.
- Galatians 5:19: “Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality (fornication), impurity, sensuality…” This lists fornication as one of the “works of the flesh,” meaning it is part of the sinful nature that opposes the Spirit.
- Ephesians 5:3: “But sexual immorality (fornication) and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints.” Paul instructs Christians to live above reproach, avoiding even the appearance of sexual sin.
- 1 Thessalonians 4:3: “For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality (fornication).” Here, fornication is something to be avoided, as part of God’s will for believers’ sanctification.
Meaning: Fornication is a broad term that refers to any sexual activity outside the bounds of marriage, including premarital sex, adultery (as it involves sexual immorality), and any other act of sexual sin, including masturbation. The Bible condemns fornication because it goes against God’s design for sexual relationships, which are meant to occur exclusively within the covenant of marriage between a man and a woman.
Key Differences between Adultery and Fornication:
- Adultery is specifically sexual unfaithfulness within a marriage, i.e., a married person having relations with someone other than their spouse.
- Fornication is a more general term for sexual immorality that occurs outside of the marriage covenant, including premarital sex, incest, and other illicit sexual behaviors.
In essence, adultery is a form of fornication but with the added context of a married person engaging in illicit sexual relations. The Bible condemns both because they violate God’s commands concerning sexual purity and the sanctity of marriage. Both sins also have spiritual consequences, including the potential to hinder one’s relationship with God unless repentance and forgiveness are sought.
The Bible speaks clearly about the consequences of adultery and fornication, both of which are considered serious sins against God and His design for human relationships. These consequences can be seen in the realms of spiritual, emotional, relational, and physical impact. Below, we will examine each of these consequences according to Scripture:
- Spiritual Consequences
Both adultery and fornication are considered violations of God’s commandments and disrupt one’s relationship with God. The Bible warns that unrepentant sexual sin can have eternal consequences, affecting one’s spiritual life and standing before God.
- Separation from God:
Sexual immorality creates a barrier between individuals and God because it goes against His will. In Isaiah 59:2, the Bible teaches that sin separates us from God:
“But your iniquities have made a separation between you and your God, and your sins have hidden His face from you so that He does not hear.”
Adultery and fornication cause a breakdown in the intimacy believers have with God, making it harder to hear from Him and experience His presence. - Exclusion from the Kingdom of God:
The Bible clearly warns that those who practice unrepentant sexual immorality will not inherit the Kingdom of God. 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 says:
“Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality… will inherit the kingdom of God.”
Revelation 21:8 also underscores this warning, listing sexual immorality as a reason for exclusion from eternal life:
“But as for the cowardly, the faithless, the detestable, as for murderers, the sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars, their portion will be in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur, which is the second death.” - Discipline from God:
God disciplines His children out of love. In Hebrews 12:6, we are told:
“For the Lord disciplines the one He loves, and chastises every son whom He receives.”
Those who engage in adultery or fornication without repentance may experience God’s discipline in their lives, which can manifest in various forms, including spiritual dryness or conviction, loss of peace, or a disrupted relationship with God.
- Emotional Consequences
Adultery and fornication often lead to deep emotional pain for both the individual and those involved, resulting in feelings of guilt, shame, and regret.
- Guilt and Shame:
The Bible teaches that sexual sin brings about guilt and shame. Proverbs 6:32-33 says:
“He who commits adultery lacks sense; he who does it destroys himself. He will get wounds and dishonor, and his disgrace will not be wiped away.”
When individuals commit adultery or fornication, it often leads to intense emotional turmoil and a sense of internal conflict, as they recognize they have violated God’s law and their own moral conscience. - Heartache and Regret:
Sexual sin creates regret and sorrow. In Psalm 51:17, David, after his sin with Bathsheba, expresses the brokenness caused by his actions:
“The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise.”
Adultery and fornication can lead to inner brokenness, as individuals wrestle with the consequences of their actions and the pain they have caused themselves and others.
- Relational Consequences
Adultery and fornication have devastating effects on relationships, particularly within the context of marriage and family. These sins erode trust, intimacy, and commitment.
- Broken Marriages:
Matthew 19:9 tells us that adultery is a cause for divorce:
“And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”
Adultery violates the marriage covenant, often leading to the destruction of the marital relationship. The betrayal of trust between spouses can lead to divorce and permanent relational scars. - Loss of Trust:
In cases of adultery, trust is shattered, not just between the spouses, but often between the individuals involved and the wider community (family, friends, etc.). Proverbs 6:32 warns:
“But the one who commits adultery with a woman is lacking sense; he who would destroy himself does it.”
The consequences of broken trust can have long-term relational damage, leaving wounds that take a long time to heal. - Family Harm:
Adultery and fornication can have a negative impact on children and extended family. When parents divorce or are emotionally damaged by sexual sin, children often suffer the consequences of disrupted homes. Malachi 2:15 highlights the importance of faithfulness in marriage, not only for the couple but for the future of their family:
“Did He not make them one, with a portion of the Spirit in their union? And what was the one God seeking? Godly offspring. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and let none of you be faithless to the wife of your youth.”
- Physical Consequences
In addition to the spiritual and emotional consequences, adultery and fornication can have very real physical consequences.
- Health Risks:
Engaging in sexual immorality increases the risk of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), some of which can have long-lasting and even life-threatening effects. 1 Corinthians 6:18 warns:
“Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.”
The act of sexual sin, especially with multiple partners, puts one’s body at risk for diseases such as HIV/AIDS, chlamydia, syphilis, and more. - Unwanted Pregnancies:
Fornication, especially premarital sex, can lead to unintended pregnancies, which often bring about significant emotional, relational, and financial challenges. In some cases, these pregnancies result in broken families or individuals facing difficult choices.
- Consequences for the Church and Community
Unrepentant sexual sin can have negative consequences not just for individuals but also for the broader Christian community. The Bible calls the church to maintain holiness and purity within its members.
- Disruption in the Church:
The church is meant to be a community that reflects the holiness of God. When members engage in sexual sin, it can cause division and disunity. 1 Corinthians 5:1-2 deals with a case of sexual immorality in the Corinthian church and warns that such sin should be addressed in the church community to protect its purity.
“It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and of a kind that is not tolerated even among pagans… and you are arrogant! Ought you not rather to mourn?” - Loss of Witness:
When the church does not live according to the moral standards set in the Bible, it risks losing its witness to the world. Romans 2:24 points out:
“For, as it is written, ‘The name of God is blasphemed among the Gentiles because of you.’”
Sexual immorality within the church can lead to a damaged reputation and hinder the gospel’s impact on the world.
Conclusion
Repentance of your sins
The consequences of adultery and fornication are far-reaching, impacting spiritual, emotional, relational, and physical aspects of life. These sins have serious consequences not only for the individual involved but also for their relationships, family, and the broader community. However, the Bible also offers hope, urging repentance and forgiveness through Christ. 1 John 1:9 promises:
“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”
Through repentance and the grace of God, individuals who have fallen into these sins can be restored to fellowship with God and experience healing in their relationships.
Overcoming the temptation of adultery and fornication
Living purely in a world that often promotes immorality requires intentional effort, reliance on God’s strength, and practical steps to protect your mind and body. The Bible provides clear guidance on how to resist temptation, live a holy life, and pursue sexual purity. Below are several biblical principles and practical steps for overcoming temptation and living purely:
- Flee from Temptation
- Biblical Principle: The Bible calls us to flee from sexual immorality (fornication and adultery). This means actively avoiding situations where you might be tempted.
- 1 Corinthians 6:18: “Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.”
- 2 Timothy 2:22: “So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.”
Practical Application:
- Avoid environments, movies, shows, or books that promote or normalize sexual immorality.
- Be careful about the people you spend time with, especially if they encourage or condone sinful behavior.
- Set clear boundaries in relationships, particularly in romantic relationships, to avoid crossing lines that might lead to temptation.
Guard Your Mind and Heart
- Biblical Principle: Jesus teaches that lust begins in the heart and mind, so purity starts with controlling our thoughts.
- Matthew 5:27-28: “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery,’ but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”
- Philippians 4:8: “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.”
Practical Application:
- Be mindful of what you watch, read, and listen to. Fill your mind with good, pure, and wholesome things, not sexually provocative material.
- Practice self-discipline by immediately redirecting your thoughts when lustful or impure thoughts arise.
- Spend time meditating on God’s Word and praying for purity of mind and heart.
Set Boundaries and Be Accountable
- Biblical Principle: Accountability helps us stay strong and resist temptation. God designed us to live in community, and sharing our struggles with trusted, godly friends is vital for purity.
- Ecclesiastes 4:9-10: “Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up.”
- James 5:16: “Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed.”
Practical Application:
- Set boundaries in your relationships to avoid any form of sexual temptation. This could include limiting time alone with someone of the opposite sex, not being in private or compromising situations, and keeping physical affection in check.
- Develop an accountability system. Share your struggles with a trusted friend, mentor, or pastor, and allow them to help keep you accountable.
- Be open about your struggles and temptations. Prayer, confession, and support from others can strengthen your resolve to live purely.
Foster a Deep Relationship with God
- Biblical Principle: A vibrant relationship with God through prayer, worship, and His Word empowers you to resist temptation and live a pure life.
- Psalm 119:9: “How can a young man keep his way pure? By guarding it according to your word.”
- Galatians 5:16: “But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.”
Practical Application:
- Spend daily time in prayer, asking God to help you remain pure and resist temptation. The more connected you are to Him, the more power you will have to live according to His will.
- Meditate on God’s Word regularly. The Bible is a tool that strengthens your resolve and guides your decisions, helping you stand firm in the face of temptation.
- Engage in regular worship, both privately and within a community, to refocus your mind and heart on God’s holiness and His purposes for your life.
Recognize the Consequences of Sexual Sin
- Biblical Principle: Acknowledging the serious consequences of sexual immorality, both spiritually and practically, can motivate us to pursue purity.
- Proverbs 6:32-33: “He who commits adultery lacks sense; he who does it destroys himself. He will get wounds and dishonor, and his disgrace will not be wiped away.”
- 1 Corinthians 6:18: “Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.”
- Romans 6:23: “For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
Practical Application:
- Regularly remind yourself of the devastating consequences of sexual sin. Whether it’s spiritual separation from God, relational destruction, or the emotional and physical toll, keep in mind the damage that sin causes.
- When tempted, reflect on the grace and redemption offered by Christ. Think of how much God loves you and desires for you to live a pure, holy life.
Renew Your Mind
- Biblical Principle: To overcome temptation, we must renew our minds by focusing on things that honor God and align with His truth.
- Romans 12:2: “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”
- Colossians 3:2: “Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.”
Practical Application:
- Renew your mind by meditating on God’s Word and thinking about His truth, His purposes, and His holiness.
- Replace the world’s lies and seductive messages about sex with God’s vision for purity and holiness in marriage.
- Cultivate a mindset that seeks to glorify God in all things, including your sexuality.
Practice Self-Control
- Biblical Principle: Self-control is a fruit of the Spirit and essential for resisting sexual temptation.
- Galatians 5:22-23: “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law.”
- Titus 2:11-12: “For the grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people. It teaches us to say ‘No’ to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in this present age.”
Practical Application:
- Practice saying “no” to temptations. You don’t have to give in to every impulse or desire. Recognize that through the power of the Holy Spirit, you can control your desires.
- When tempted, pause and pray for self-control. Ask God to give you strength to resist temptation and to walk in His ways.
Understand the Power of Grace and Forgiveness
- Biblical Principle: If you fall into temptation, don’t despair. God’s grace is greater than your sin, and He offers forgiveness to those who repent.
- 1 John 1:9: “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”
- Romans 8:1: “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”
Practical Application:
- If you stumble, confess your sin to God, receive His forgiveness, and get back on track. Don’t let guilt and shame keep you from moving forward in your walk with God.
- Lean on God’s grace to strengthen you. Remember that victory over sin is possible through His power and that He loves you unconditionally.
Conclusion:
Living purely and overcoming the temptation of adultery and fornication is not easy, but it is possible with God’s help. By following these biblical principles—fleeing temptation, guarding your mind, setting boundaries, nurturing your relationship with God, and relying on His grace—you can live a life of sexual purity that honors God and reflects His holiness. Trust in His power to help you walk in victory and pursue His will for your life.
Receiving Gods Grace and Redemption
Receiving God’s grace and redemption from the sins of fornication and adultery is rooted in the gospel message—the good news of God’s love, mercy, and forgiveness through Jesus Christ. No matter how far one has fallen, God’s grace is sufficient to forgive, cleanse, and restore. The process involves a combination of repentance, faith in Jesus Christ, and a commitment to living according to God’s will. Here’s how you can receive God’s grace and redemption from these sins:
Acknowledge the Sin and Repent
- Biblical Principle: Repentance is the first step toward receiving God’s grace. Repentance means turning away from sin and turning toward God in faith. It is recognizing that you have sinned against God, confessing that sin, and committing to change your ways with the help of the Holy Spirit.
- 1 John 1:9: “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”
- Acts 3:19: “Repent therefore, and turn back, that your sins may be blotted out.”
Practical Steps:
- Confession: Acknowledge to God that you have fallen into sin. Specifically confess the sin of fornication or adultery, recognizing it as a violation of His commandments and His design for purity.
- Sincerity: Repentance must be sincere. This means genuinely desiring to turn away from sin and make a commitment to live according to God’s standards.
- Prayer: Ask God to forgive you for your sin, cleanse your heart, and give you strength to avoid falling into temptation again. Trust in His promise to forgive.
Example Prayer: “Lord, I come before You, acknowledging my sin of [fornication/adultery]. I have sinned against You, and I repent of my actions. Please forgive me and cleanse me by the blood of Jesus. I ask You to help me live in purity and walk according to Your will. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”
Trust in Jesus Christ for Forgiveness and Redemption
- Biblical Principle: God’s grace and redemption are available only through faith in Jesus Christ. Jesus’ death on the cross paid the penalty for sin, offering forgiveness and cleansing to all who believe in Him. His grace is unmerited and abundant.
- Ephesians 2:8-9: “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.”
- Romans 5:8: “But God shows His love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”
Practical Steps:
- Believe in Jesus: Understand that Jesus Christ’s sacrifice on the cross is the foundation of grace and redemption. By trusting in His finished work, you are forgiven and made new. This is the heart of the gospel—His grace is freely offered to those who believe.
- Accept His Forgiveness: Once you confess your sin and place your faith in Christ, you can receive full forgiveness. Trust in God’s promise that if you confess your sin and believe in Christ, you are forgiven.
- Embrace New Identity in Christ: Understand that in Christ, you are a new creation. Your past sins, including adultery or fornication, are forgiven, and you are now clothed in the righteousness of Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17).
- Receive the Holy Spirit’s Help to Live Purely
- Biblical Principle: The Holy Spirit empowers believers to live in a way that pleases God. The Holy Spirit convicts of sin, guides in righteousness, and enables a life of purity. It’s not by our own strength that we overcome sin, but through the power of the Holy Spirit.
- Galatians 5:16: “But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.”
- John 14:26: “But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you.”
Practical Steps:
- Ask for the Holy Spirit’s Help: Daily ask the Holy Spirit to give you strength to resist temptation. The Spirit will help you overcome the desires of the flesh and guide you in living a life of purity.
- Walk in the Spirit: Allow the Holy Spirit to direct your steps. This means staying sensitive to His leading, reading Scripture, and prayerfully seeking His guidance in every area of your life.
- Pursue Holiness: Let the Holy Spirit sanctify you. As you grow in your relationship with God, the Spirit will empower you to live a holy life, making you more like Christ each day.
Commit to Purity and Set Boundaries
- Biblical Principle: The Bible calls believers to pursue sexual purity and live according to God’s standards. This involves not only avoiding sexual sin but also actively pursuing holiness in thought, word, and action.
- 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5: “For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God.”
- 2 Timothy 2:22: “So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.”
Practical Steps:
- Set Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries in relationships to protect yourself from temptation. This could include avoiding situations where temptation is strong or where you might be alone with someone of the opposite sex. (Continued)
- Guard Your Heart and Mind: Protect your thoughts by focusing on things that are pure, lovely, and commendable (Philippians 4:8). Avoid exposing yourself to sexually provocative material.
- Flee from Temptation: Whenever possible, avoid situations that might lead you into temptation. The Bible says to “flee from sexual immorality” (1 Corinthians 6:18). Take proactive steps to protect your purity.
Be Accountable to Others
- Biblical Principle: God calls believers to live in community and accountability with others. This helps to protect against sin and provides support in the struggle for purity.
- James 5:16: “Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed.”
- Ecclesiastes 4:9-10: “Two are better than one… For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow.”
Practical Steps:
- Find an Accountability Partner: Share your struggle with a trusted Christian friend or mentor who can pray for you and help keep you accountable.
- Join a Support Group: Being part of a community that values sexual purity can help you stay focused on your goals and encourage you in times of weakness.
- Be Honest and Open: Don’t hide your struggles. Confess your temptations and sins regularly to your accountability partners so they can support you in your journey toward purity.
Live in the Light of God’s Grace and Forgiveness
- Biblical Principle: Once you receive God’s forgiveness, you are called to live in the light of His grace, knowing that there is no condemnation in Christ. Your sins have been forgiven, and you are free to live according to God’s will.
- Romans 8:1: “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”
- Colossians 1:13-14: “He has delivered us from the domain of darkness and transferred us to the kingdom of His beloved Son, in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.”
Practical Steps:
- Live with Confidence: Walk in the confidence of your forgiven state. Don’t allow guilt or shame to hold you back. Christ’s forgiveness is complete, and you can live victoriously. (Continued)
- Press Onward: Let go of your past mistakes. Philippians 3:13-14 encourages: “But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.”
- Embrace God’s Redemption: Trust that God’s redemptive work in your life has restored you. Your identity is now in Christ, and you are a new creation. Live with this renewed purpose.
Conclusion
Receiving God’s grace and redemption from the sins of fornication and adultery is possible through repentance, faith in Jesus Christ, and the power of the Holy Spirit. God’s grace is more than sufficient to forgive and cleanse you, no matter how far you have fallen. Through sincere repentance, faith in Christ, and a commitment to purity, you can experience God’s grace and live a life of holiness. God is faithful to forgive, transform, and empower you to live according to His will.
The Consequences of Adultery and Fornication
- Physical and Emotional Consequences (Proverbs 6:32-33, 1 Corinthians 6:18): Discuss the harm to the individual and others, such as broken trust, emotional scars, and the spread of disease. Explain that sexual sin often leads to deeper moral decay.
- Spiritual Consequences (Galatians 5:19-21, Revelation 21:8): Show how unrepentant sexual immorality can separate a person from God. Teach that it disrupts communion with God and disqualifies individuals from inheriting the kingdom of God.
- God’s Judgment: Discuss Hebrews 13:4 and 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 to emphasize that God will judge those who engage in sexual sin. However, also stress that judgment is not the final word when it comes to God’s grace.
How to Overcome Temptation and Live Purely
- Flee Sexual Immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18): Teach the importance of actively avoiding temptation. Discuss practical steps such as setting boundaries, avoiding certain situations, and being accountable to others.
- Guarding the Heart and Mind (Matthew 5:28, Philippians 4:8): Emphasize that purity starts in the mind. Encourage the group to practice self-control by controlling their thoughts and avoiding lustful fantasies and media.
- The Role of the Holy Spirit (Galatians 5:16-17): Teach how walking in the Spirit empowers believers to overcome desires of the flesh. Discuss how daily prayer, Bible reading, and a strong relationship with God help cultivate holiness.
God’s Grace and Redemption
- Forgiveness for the Fallen (John 8:1-11, 1 John 1:9): Share how Jesus offers forgiveness and grace to those who have fallen into adultery or fornication. Emphasize that there is hope for restoration through repentance and faith.
- Freedom in Christ (Romans 8:1-2): Teach how the grace of God enables believers to live victoriously over sin. Encourage anyone struggling with these issues to seek help from God and the church community.
Engaging the Group
During the study, ask open-ended questions to encourage participation and reflection.
Group Discussion
- “Why do you think sexual sin is such a major issue in our culture today?”
- “How does God’s definition of purity differ from society’s views?”
- “What are some practical steps you can take to protect yourself from sexual temptation?”
- “How can the church support individuals who are struggling with these sins?”
Personal Reflection
- Give time for personal reflection. You might ask the group to think about areas in their lives where they might struggle with purity and how they can seek God’s help in overcoming those struggles.
Practical Application
- Offer practical ways to apply the scripture. For example, encourage everyone to set up accountability groups, seek counseling if necessary, or spend time praying for strength in the area of purity.
- Helping someone who is struggling with fornication and adultery can be both a delicate and deeply compassionate process. Scripture provides wisdom, encouragement, and practical guidance for overcoming these challenges. Here are some practical ways to apply scriptures to support someone in this struggle:
Renewing the Mind and Focus on Purity
- Scripture: Romans 12:2 – “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”
- Application: Encourage the person to renew their thinking by spending time in prayer and meditation on God’s Word. When they are facing temptation, they can call on the truth of Scripture to reframe their thoughts. This might involve memorizing verses that speak to purity and calling on God’s strength in those moments of struggle.
Accountability and Community Support
- Scripture: Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 – “Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up.”
- Application: Encourage them to find an accountability partner or a trusted group of believers who can offer prayer, support, and guidance. Regularly meeting with someone who understands their struggle can help keep them on track and provide encouragement during weak moments.
- 3. Guarding the Heart and Eyes
- Scripture: Matthew 5:28 – “But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”
- Application: Help the person recognize the importance of guarding their thoughts and actions, as lust can begin in the heart long before any physical act occurs. Encourage them to avoid situations, media, or online content that may lead to temptation. Practically, this could involve setting boundaries, using filters on devices, or avoiding places where temptation is strong.
The Power of Prayer and Seeking God’s Strength
- Scripture: 1 Corinthians 10:13 – “No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.”
- Application: Encourage them to pray regularly and ask for God’s strength to overcome temptation. Teach them to pray specifically for wisdom, strength, and a heart that desires to honor God with their body. Remind them that they are not alone in their struggle, and God is faithful to provide a way out when temptation arises.
Understanding the Importance of Sexual Purity
- Scripture: 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 – “For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God.”
- Application: Help them understand that God’s design for sexual purity is not only a command but also a gift that promotes spiritual health and honor. It’s not about restriction, but about living in a way that brings joy, peace, and a closer relationship with God. Encourage them to see their body as a temple of the Holy Spirit, and remind them that their choices have eternal significance.
- 6. Forgiveness and Healing
- Scripture: 1 John 1:9 – “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”
- Application: If the person has already fallen into sin, help them understand the power of confession and forgiveness. God offers grace and mercy, and there is always hope for restoration. Encourage them to confess and seek God’s forgiveness, knowing that He is always ready to cleanse and restore. Additionally, remind them that healing may be a process, but with God’s help, they can move forward.
Creating Boundaries and Practical Steps
- Scripture: Proverbs 4:23 – “Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life.”
- Application: Encourage the person to set clear, practical boundaries to protect their hearts and bodies from temptation. This could include avoiding private or vulnerable situations, setting clear dating guidelines, or even taking a break from romantic relationships if necessary to refocus on their spiritual health. Encourage them to make wise decisions in relationships and in how they spend their time.
Recognizing the Eternal Perspective
- Scripture: Hebrews 13:4 – “Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled; for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.”
- Application: Help them remember that sexual purity is not just for today, but has eternal implications. Encourage them to consider the bigger picture and to live with a focus on honoring God, which leads to spiritual growth, deeper intimacy with Him, and the eventual reward of living according to His will. Help them understand that purity is a reflection of their love and commitment to God.
Avoiding Temptation and Running from Sin
- Scripture: 1 Corinthians 6:18 – “Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.”
- Application: Encourage them to take proactive steps to flee from temptation. This might include avoiding certain people, places, or situations that trigger desires, or seeking a safe, accountable environment where they can be supported in making better choices. Remind them that running from sin is a sign of strength, not weakness.
Conclusion:
- By integrating these scriptures into practical steps, you can help someone struggling with fornication and adultery align their heart with God’s will. The focus should be on renewal through the Word, strengthening through prayer and accountability, and remembering that God’s grace is sufficient for all struggles. Purity is a lifelong pursuit, and through His strength, the person can find victory and healing.
20 Scriptures with definition to help you understand the importance of Gods purity.
Adultery:
- Exodus 20:14 – “You shall not commit adultery.”
This commandment is a fundamental moral law in the Bible, stating that one should not engage in sexual relations with someone other than their spouse. It emphasizes the sanctity of marriage and the importance of faithfulness in relationships. - Leviticus 20:10 – “If a man commits adultery with the wife of another man, both the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.”
This law reflects the seriousness with which adultery was regarded in ancient Israel. It not only condemns the act but also prescribes a severe punishment, underlining the importance of sexual purity and marital fidelity in the community. - Proverbs 6:32 – “He who commits adultery lacks sense; he who does it destroys himself.”
Adultery is portrayed as a foolish and self-destructive act. It is a violation of moral integrity that leads to personal harm, damage to relationships, and spiritual consequences, such as guilt and regret. - Matthew 5:27-28 – “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”
Jesus expands the definition of adultery beyond just physical acts to include lustful thoughts. This shows that adultery is not only an external act but also a matter of the heart and mind, urging believers to maintain purity in their thoughts and desires. - Matthew 19:9 – “And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”
Jesus addresses divorce and remarriage, emphasizing that divorcing a spouse without biblical grounds (such as sexual immorality) leads to adultery. The teaching highlights the permanence and sacredness of marriage. - John 8:3-4 – “The scribes and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in adultery… they said to Him, ‘Teacher, this woman has been caught in the act of adultery.'”
This passage shows how the religious leaders used the woman caught in adultery to trap Jesus. While the woman is guilty, Jesus responds with compassion, teaching the principle that those without sin should be the first to cast judgment. - Romans 13:9 – “The commandments, ‘You shall not commit adultery,’ ‘You shall not murder,’ ‘You shall not steal,’ ‘You shall not covet,’ and any other commandment, are summed up in this word: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.'”
Paul explains that the commandments, including the prohibition against adultery, are all expressions of love. To avoid adultery is to respect the relationships and commitments of others, demonstrating love for one’s neighbor. - 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 – “Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers…”
This scripture warns that those who engage in adultery and other forms of sexual immorality will not inherit the kingdom of God. It underscores the seriousness of living a righteous life and staying faithful to God’s standards. - Hebrews 13:4 – “Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled; for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.”
The writer of Hebrews stresses the importance of honoring marriage and keeping sexual relations within the bounds of marriage. God will judge those who engage in adultery, underlining the sanctity of the marriage covenant. - James 4:4 – “You adulterous people! Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Therefore whoever wishes to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God.”
James uses the term “adulterous” metaphorically to describe those who turn away from God in favor of worldly pleasures. It suggests that spiritual unfaithfulness is like adultery, as it breaks the covenant between the believer and God.
Fornication:
- 1 Corinthians 6:18 – “Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.”
Paul commands believers to flee from sexual immorality (fornication), explaining that unlike other sins, sexual sin directly impacts the body. It is a unique offense because the body is meant to be a temple of the Holy Spirit. - Galatians 5:19 – “Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality…”
Fornication, as part of the “works of the flesh,” is a sinful act that stems from the sinful nature. Paul lists it alongside other sinful behaviors to show how they oppose the life of the Spirit and the holiness expected from believers. - Ephesians 5:3 – “But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints.”
Paul calls for sexual immorality, impurity, and greed to be completely avoided by Christians. These behaviors are inappropriate for those who are called to live a holy life and reflect Christ’s purity in their conduct. - Colossians 3:5 – “Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry.”
Believers are urged to “put to death” sinful desires, including fornication, which can dominate a person’s life. This emphasizes that Christians must actively resist sin and live in accordance with their new life in Christ. - 1 Thessalonians 4:3 – “For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality.”
Paul teaches that God’s will is for believers to live holy lives by abstaining from sexual immorality. It is part of the process of sanctification, or becoming more like Christ in character and conduct. - Revelation 21:8 – “But as for the cowardly, the faithless, the detestable, as for murderers, the sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars, their portion will be in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur, which is the second death.”
This passage is a stark warning about the eternal consequences of sexual immorality, among other sins. Those who persist in such sin without repentance face severe judgment and separation from God. - Matthew 15:19 – “For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander.”
Jesus teaches that sexual immorality, like other sins, originates from the heart. This suggests that true purity begins within, and believers should guard their hearts against impure thoughts and desires. - Mark 7:21-23 – “For from within, out of the heart of man, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, coveting, wickedness, deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride, foolishness. All these evil things come from within, and they defile a person.”
Jesus explains that fornication and other sins come from within a person’s heart, not merely from external circumstances. This emphasizes the need for internal transformation through the Holy Spirit to overcome sin. - 1 Corinthians 5:1 – “It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and of a kind that is not tolerated even among pagans, for a man has his father’s wife.”
Paul rebukes the Corinthian church for tolerating a form of fornication (incest) that was even considered immoral by non-believers. The church must uphold a higher standard of purity and discipline. - 2 Peter 2:14 – “They have eyes full of adultery, insatiable for sin. They entice unsteady souls. They have hearts trained in greed. Accursed children!”
Peter describes false teachers who are consumed by sin, including sexual immorality, and lead others astray. Their unchecked desires are harmful and lead to spiritual destruction, emphasizing the importance of guarding one’s heart against sinful influences.
These explanations help to understand the biblical perspective on adultery and fornication, showing that both are not just physical acts but also moral and spiritual issues that affect one’s relationship with God.
